Real Bodies, Real Beauty and The Power of Inclusive Lingerie Representation
- S at Adore By S

- Dec 22, 2025
- 5 min read

There is a moment many women know too well. Standing in a change room. Scrolling an online store late at night. Flicking past image after image of bodies that look nothing like their own. The message is subtle but constant. This is what beauty looks like. This is what lingerie is made for. This is who gets to feel confident, sexy, desirable.
For so long, lingerie marketing has been narrow. Slim. Carefully curated. Designed around a single idea of femininity. And when real women do not see themselves reflected there, it creates a quiet disconnect. Not loud enough to always name, but strong enough to shape how confidence is felt in the body.
Inclusive lingerie representation changes that story. Not by lowering the bar. Not by hiding or apologising. But by expanding what beauty has always been capable of holding.
Representation is often spoken about as a trend. Something brands add when it becomes fashionable. But true representation runs deeper than a few extended sizes or the occasional diverse image. It is about who is centred. Whose bodies are celebrated without conditions. Whose comfort, curves, softness and strength are designed for from the very beginning.
In lingerie, representation matters because this is one of the most intimate things a woman wears. It sits against skin. It supports the body through long days. It holds breasts, hips, bellies, thighs. It is felt before it is ever seen.
When lingerie is designed only for one body type, every other body is forced to adapt. Straps dig in. Bands roll. Cups gape or flatten. Comfort becomes something to sacrifice to feel attractive. And over time, that quietly teaches women that their bodies are the problem.
Inclusive lingerie says something different. It says bodies are not meant to be fixed. They are meant to be held.
Real bodies are not a niche. Curvy bodies. Plus-size bodies. Mid-size bodies. Small bodies. Soft bodies. Strong bodies. Tall bodies. Short bodies. These are not exceptions. They are the majority.
Yet for decades, the lingerie industry treated them like an afterthought. Sizes stopped at arbitrary numbers. Designs assumed minimal support needs. Marketing suggested that confidence arrived only after weight loss, toning, shrinking.
Real bodies do not exist to be aspirational. They exist to live, move, work, love, rest and feel good. Inclusive lingerie representation places real bodies at the centre rather than the sidelines. It shows stretch marks, softness, curves, scars and natural shape without apology.
This kind of representation does something powerful. It normalises what was never meant to feel hidden in the first place.
There is a psychological shift that happens when women see bodies like their own reflected back with beauty and care. Not styled to be palatable. Not posed to minimise. Simply present and celebrated.
Confidence grows when comparison loosens its grip. When lingerie is shown on a range of bodies, it becomes easier to imagine how it might feel on your own. The inner dialogue softens. The pressure to change fades. Curiosity replaces self judgement.
Representation is not about convincing women they are beautiful. It is about removing the barriers that told them they were not.
For many women, especially those who have spent years feeling invisible in fashion spaces, inclusive lingerie can feel like a permission slip. Permission to enjoy their body now. Permission to feel sensual without performing. Permission to buy something simply because it feels good.
Now let's talk about lingerie in this kind of world. One of the biggest myths around lingerie is that it exists for someone else’s gaze. For a partner. For a special occasion. For a version of the self that only shows up under certain conditions.
Inclusive lingerie reframes that entirely. It brings lingerie back into the everyday. Back into the body. Back into self connection.
When lingerie is designed with real bodies in mind, comfort and beauty are no longer opposites. Support feels secure rather than restrictive. Fabrics stretch and move with the body instead of against it. Designs highlight curves instead of trying to control them.
This is where self love becomes embodied rather than conceptual. Lingerie becomes something chosen for how it feels. How it supports confidence quietly, under clothes, through ordinary moments. Not loud or performative. Just present.
Inclusive representation does more than change how women shop. It shifts culture.
When brands invest in inclusive lingerie design, they are forced to rethink assumptions. About sizing. About shape. About what femininity looks like. That creates better products for everyone, not just plus size and mid-size women.
Wider straps. Stronger bands. Thoughtful construction. These are not compromises. They are upgrades.
And when marketing reflects that inclusivity honestly, it challenges the idea that beauty must be earned. That confidence arrives only after transformation. That worth is conditional.
Instead, it communicates something far more grounding. Beauty exists now. Exactly where you are.
In Australia, conversations around body image, self worth and representation continue to evolve. Yet many women still struggle to find plus size lingerie that feels modern, stylish and genuinely supportive. Too often, options fall into extremes. Overly practical with no sense of desire, or overly sexualised without real comfort.
Inclusive lingerie in Australia must meet women where they are. Busy lives. Real bodies. Real needs. Pieces that feel beautiful without being fragile. Designs that feel confident without feeling intimidating.
Representation plays a key role here. Australian women deserve to see bodies like theirs reflected in local brands. Not edited versions. Not borrowed imagery. Real women. Real curves. Real presence.
For many women, the shift into inclusive lingerie is emotional. It can bring up old feelings of exclusion. Memories of not fitting. Of being told certain styles were not for them. Of feeling like their body existed outside the frame of beauty.
Inclusive representation does not erase that history. But it offers something new. A different experience. One where lingerie becomes a site of healing rather than shame.
Choosing inclusive lingerie can be an act of self trust. A quiet statement that comfort matters. That beauty does not need permission. That softness and strength can coexist in the same body.
This is empowerment that feels grounded rather than performative. Not loud. Not forced. Simply embodied.
Beauty has never been a fixed point. It shifts with culture, context and courage. Inclusive lingerie representation invites beauty to expand rather than narrow. To become more honest. More human.
When more bodies are seen, more women feel free. Free to dress for themselves. Free to choose lingerie that feels aligned. Free to enjoy their body without waiting for it to change.
This is not about trends. It is about truth. About reflecting women as they are, not as they are told to be.
Because real bodies do not need permission to be beautiful. They already are.
With love,
Adore By S x

