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From Burnout to Body Love & Reconnecting with Your Sensual Self

  • Writer: S at Adore By S
    S at Adore By S
  • 5 days ago
  • 3 min read
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There’s a moment that comes after the chaos. A kind of quiet reckoning. Not the loud kind that explodes into change, but a soft, aching realisation that you’ve been carrying too much, doing too much, giving too much. And in all that giving, you forgot the most important person in the room. Yourself.


Burnout doesn’t always arrive with fanfare. Sometimes it tiptoes in quietly. You wake up feeling foggy, worn out, numb. The spark that once made you feel alive dims until even rest doesn’t feel restful anymore. It’s more than just exhaustion, it’s disconnection. From your body. From your pleasure. From your inner rhythm. And often, when the world tells us to “keep going” or “push through,” what we really need is to come home. Not to a place, but to ourselves.


This is where body love begins. Not in the mirror or in someone else’s gaze, but in the quiet moments of returning. When you stop performing and start listening. When you stop fixing and start feeling. It’s a process, not a one-time epiphany. And for many women, especially those juggling work, relationships, families, and expectations, the path back to body love is layered, raw, and deeply personal.


The first step often isn’t grand. It’s small. It might be choosing to stretch for five minutes in the morning instead of reaching for your phone. It might be lighting a candle while you take a shower, instead of rushing through it like a chore. These are acts of sensuality, not sexual, but sensory. They ground you. They soften the edges of burnout. They remind your nervous system that slowness is safe.


And then there’s touch. Not the kind that’s expected or transactional, but intentional touch. A hand placed gently on your heart. A slow massage with your favourite oil. Slipping into something soft, silky, or lacey, not for anyone else’s approval, but because you want to feel delicious in your own skin. This is where lingerie comes in, not as a tool of seduction for others, but as a celebration of self. It’s one of the most intimate acts of reclaiming pleasure when the world has dulled your senses.


So often, women are taught to disconnect from their sensuality, to tone it down, hide it, or reserve it for someone else’s desire. But your sensuality is yours. It lives in the way you walk, the way you breathe, the way you choose to honour your body with presence. It’s in the fabric that hugs your curves. The music that stirs something in your belly. The food you eat slowly, tasting every bite. Sensuality is your birthright, not something you have to earn or justify.


And yes, this path can feel messy. Some days, body love might look like dancing in your

underwear. Other days, it might mean resting when everything in your mind tells you to keep going. Both are valid. Both are sacred. Healing from burnout isn’t linear, and reconnecting with your body won’t happen overnight. But every time you choose softness over shame, presence over perfection, or play over performance, you rewrite the story. You come back to the truth of who you are.


This reconnection to your sensual self isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. It’s how you remember your worth beyond productivity. It’s how you reclaim joy. And it’s how you begin to love yourself not just in theory, but in practice. Because body love isn’t a destination, it’s a relationship. One you get to nurture every day, in tiny, tender ways.


So if you’re in the thick of burnout, let this be a reminder: your body is not the enemy. She’s been carrying you, even when you forgot how to carry her. She’s been whispering for rest, for pleasure, for softness. And now, it’s time to listen. Time to return.


Start with one small thing. A breath. A stretch. A silky slip against your skin. Let it awaken something within you. Let it remind you that you’re still here. Still worthy. Still powerful in your softness.



With Love,

Adore By S x

 
 
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